people give plenty of signals that they are angry, others make guerrilla strikes out of nowhere; some use anger to intimidate and control people, others use anger to sulk and avoid people. Counselors must become familiar with the characteristic flesh of their sheep.25 Anger is an intrinsically moral matter. I mean this statement in two ways. Anger evaluates and anger is itself evaluated. This has been implicit in the previous discussion, but is worth holding up for inspection.
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